There is nothing quite like working through the rejection and emotional ping pong which almost feels like an animal playing with it’s prey.There is only so much stomach freezing energy one can contain.
I had an adolescent hangover from mean girls and have trodden carefully since then. Yet ghosting can assume the guise of a Trojan horse , you can’t see it coming but you can learn from the aftermath.
How uncannily apt is our personal astrology at times. The Chiron transits can open up those scars we thought were long healed for re-examination. Firm boundaries truly help in this delicate healing process.
Thanks for leaving your comments, Stella! I appreciate seeing your friendly energy here.
Oh the MEAN GIRLS! I am so sorry.
When I read your words, I felt that I could've been perceived as one once, but the truth was that I was shy. I think I was one of the popular ones but also never fit in, so went quiet/cool.
Anyhow.
I agree- it is a traumatic experience. Honoring it as such, and not trying to "heal myself out of it", has been key. As in, Chiron-key. I think about something Melanie Reinhart once said about Chiron as showing a repetition compulsion type dynamic. It does have deep patterning. The reverberations from this have been felt - in a sort of "echoes of the past" way. xx
I so enjoyed your article Jessica!
There is nothing quite like working through the rejection and emotional ping pong which almost feels like an animal playing with it’s prey.There is only so much stomach freezing energy one can contain.
I had an adolescent hangover from mean girls and have trodden carefully since then. Yet ghosting can assume the guise of a Trojan horse , you can’t see it coming but you can learn from the aftermath.
How uncannily apt is our personal astrology at times. The Chiron transits can open up those scars we thought were long healed for re-examination. Firm boundaries truly help in this delicate healing process.
Thanks for leaving your comments, Stella! I appreciate seeing your friendly energy here.
Oh the MEAN GIRLS! I am so sorry.
When I read your words, I felt that I could've been perceived as one once, but the truth was that I was shy. I think I was one of the popular ones but also never fit in, so went quiet/cool.
Anyhow.
I agree- it is a traumatic experience. Honoring it as such, and not trying to "heal myself out of it", has been key. As in, Chiron-key. I think about something Melanie Reinhart once said about Chiron as showing a repetition compulsion type dynamic. It does have deep patterning. The reverberations from this have been felt - in a sort of "echoes of the past" way. xx